relationship boundaries

Husbands and wives should have nothing to hide from each other right?
Wrong.

There should be no boundaries between two people who have committed their lives to each other right?
Wrong.

There are no limits to the things that you should be able to do for the one you love right?
Wrong.

In other words, I'd rather do this myself.

Hopefully the test comes back negative.

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We had our 36-week check up with a doctor this morning. I thought it would be a big deal because we only see a doctor twice during the whole pregnancy (the first time at 16-18 weeks and the next at 36 weeks, if you are in the 'low-risk' category) that I asked AY to come along.

My appointment was at 9.30am, we left the house at 8.35am and registered by 9.00am. We got to see the doctor at 10.05 and he finished checking 'everything' by 10.11am (even after he took a 2-minute call - did not even have the cheek to apologise!)

First of all, he did not introduce himself. He did not acknowledge us as first-time parents. He barely spoke two words. He marked my tummy with a pen! He stuck my arm between his arm and body! No other doctors/midwives have done those things the way he did! Weirdo!

We waited more than an hour to deal with that? Erghhhhh! Not funny okay?!